You pointed out worries concerning the awkwardness of really sleeping aided by the man, and concerns about being fully a ‘dud’. Forget about this. If you ask me, and also this is irrespective of sex, things have a tendency to work by themselves down simply fine whenever both individuals are excited and involved with it. Passion alone is always well well worth a lot more than a technique that is perfect. Include a communication that is little it, and also you’re golden. Therefore just be sure for it, okay? posted by amelioration at 10:50 AM on May 30, 2009 that you wait ’til you’re all excited
Seconding, thirding and n-thing: be upfront about this, that might perhaps perhaps not (or might, according to him) be a deal that is big. Bonus: he is the very first guy that tickled your interest.